Being in my 40's

I have decided to start a blog because every time I have a birthday, I try to look back on what I've learned; and I feel like we can all learn from each other.

This past year has been fraught with empowering lessons.  I have learned (or been reminded) that:

1. You can run from God's purpose for you, and your life, for a long time; but eventually, you WILL be obedient to the Spirit - and only then, will the doors open.
2. Sometimes there really is not anymore room on your plate for one more thing.
3. It's okay to say, "No," when you really do not have the time or the desire to do something.
4. Having a real friend as a business partner is definitely the way to go.
5. Although success is even better when you have a life partner with whom to share it, it is not bittersweet to celebrate a solo victory.
6. Be prepared for some payback when you have children; but be prepared for critical stress levels when they reach their teens!
7. Taking care of yourself is NOT being selfish; but, rather, loving and valuing yourself enough to care about your own well-being. 
8. Fear no man because anyone who does not have your best interest at heart, and who is not gentle with your soul, should not have any power in your life. 
9. Women are stronger than we give ourselves credit for, or than we may even want to be, because we have to be.
10. There is nothing better in life than working towards and accomplishing a goal, or achieving a dream, that you set for yourself solely because YOU wanted it.

Those are my thoughts today.  Feel free to share yours!  Take care of you.